Kimberly Perry and Johnny Costello.Photo:Kimberly Perry/Instagram

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Kimberly Perryknew husband Johnny Costello was the one the moment she saw him.

The rest is history.

“I would’ve always told you that love at first sight was a very irresponsible thing, probably because I had never experienced it for myself,” she exclusively shares with PEOPLE. “But I’m just telling you that when we met, I immediately knew that I was in love with him.”

Perry even recalls how Costello had such a physical and emotional presence in the room.

“He’s 6'5”, blue eyes, blonde hair. But it was also his spirit that just felt really aligned with mine. He felt like a really secure person, and he felt like somebody who I was willing to shake up the pieces of my life with because he was trustworthy,” she says.

While the old adage of “you’ll know when you know” rang true for Perry, it also posed an unexpected challenge: She couldn’t wait to tell Costello how she felt.

“I did discipline myself for the first 48 hours. I was like, ‘Don’t tell him you love him! Do not say I love you.' So I waited for maybe a week, but it was a really hard thing for me to not immediately just go, ‘Let’s just spend our entire lives together,’” she says. “I was just so in from the minute we met.”

Costello was all in, too, reveals Perry, as the pair began having meaningful conversations about their future right away.

“After the first week I was like, ‘If we ever have a child, we should name them this.’ We immediately got onto and into the things that we wanted to develop and really grow in our life together,” she explains.

The couple, who have beenmarried since 2021,now plan to name their son Whitaker James.

“It just never crossed my mind that we would have a boy, but on New Year’s Eve, I was craving nachos, I was craving chips and salsa, all these very spicy foods, and I just instinctively felt like we were having a boy. I couldn’t even picture it being a girl,” Perry recalls. “And I said to Johnny, ‘We don’t have any boy names selected, so we’re just going to sit here in the turn of the year and just find a name that we both love.’”

Kimberly Perry.Michael Buckner/Getty

Kimberly Perry

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In the end, Perry, who was married to former MLB player J.P. Arencibia for four yearsbefore the pair split in 2018, says that her past relationships ultimately helped show her what she wanted in a life partner.

“I think [Johnny and I] had both come from relationships that we knew weren’t right for us,” she says. “So we had ruled out a lot of the things that we knew that we didn’t want, and it finally felt like the stars had aligned and God had really just dropped this little blessing in front of each of us. I was like, ‘Oh, that’s my person.’”

For more on Kimberly Perry, pick up this week’s issue of PEOPLE, on newsstands everywhere Friday.

source: people.com